My wife cries as she rocks
our dying cat in her arms.
All my life I will remember this.
We have shared a long life—still
this is a pet, not a dying child.
If my sister died there would be
ceremony, condolences from those
we don’t even know.
But a pet’s death is a private sorrow.
What do I care for my neighbor’s Chow?
I feel ashamed at my grief.
I feel ashamed at my shame.
When a sparrow falls someone
must count. Why should I hide
what no one wants to see?